By Jennifer Waters, LAc, Dipl. Ac
JW: Please tell us about your background.
JS:
I am a board-certified hypnotherapist, a neuro-linguistic
programming practitioner and a member of the Colorado Association of
Psychotherapists. Through my extensive hypnotherapy work with
infertility clients, I created and developed a program that focuses on
healing the mental and emotional barriers that can often prevent
conception.
JW: How did you come to get
involved with fertility as a specialization?
JS:
When I first started working with hypnotherapy, I had no idea I would
end up specializing in fertility work. I was working in an acupuncture
clinic where many women were coming in for infertility issues. Within
the first month or two of opening my practice, I saw a half a dozen
clients, referred to me by acupuncturists, who suspected that their
patients emotional issues might be a contributing factor to the overall
infertility picture. Most of the patients had been told by medical
doctors that their chances of getting pregnant or going full-term were
very slim.
At the time, there were no classes or books about how
to use hypnosis for infertility, so I had to develop my own program. As
it turned out, all six of those clients got pregnant, went full term and
had healthy babies. Those clients told their friends and it just took
off from there. My work with those clients evolved into my hypnosis
program, which became the basis for my book.
JW:
What do you think is the best way to promote fertility?
JS:
I think the key to fertility is to create mental, physical, emotional
and (for some) spiritual wellness. I highly recommend that all my
clients use acupuncture to put the body in a place of physical balance. I
recommend hypnotherapy to reduce stress and process the emotional
blocks that might be interfering with the conception process. When a
fertility client has weak kidney and spleen qi, a uterus that
is out of alignment, is experiencing high anxiety and has a fear of
repeated miscarriages, it is very unlikely that she can successfully
conceive or carry the baby full term.
The key is to first create
balance, which is when the process begins. Many women figure that going
off the pill is the start of the fertility journey. I feel that a woman
begins that journey when she starts to work on creating balance in her
life. I find it to be very rare that a woman can circumvent that process
by ignoring all of the physical and emotional issues by opting for
Western medicine. Women who choose Western medicine should be doing this
wellness work in conjunction with their procedures.
JW:
Do you feel that any woman with a diagnosis of "infertility" can
ultimately overcome that diagnosis?
JS:
Absolutely. I believe that the term "infertility" is used too liberally
within the Western medical model. If a woman who is having trouble
getting pregnant goes to a Eastern medicine practitioner, and that
practitioner observes conditions such as blood stagnation related to the
liver (resulting in poor blood flow to the uterus) and depleted kidney
energy, that practitioner isn't going to use the "infertility" label.
Instead, the acupuncturist is going to say: "Let's try to correct these
imbalances and give you the opportunity to succeed." Similarly, if I see
a woman trying to get pregnant but experiencing a high level of stress
and who has some issues, I would also say: "If we can process these
issues, it might change the dynamics of your situation."
The
"infertility" diagnosis is usually based on the limited resources
available within the Western Medical system. I find that when a woman
achieves physical and emotional balance, there may no longer be an
infertile situation. That is why I felt this book was so important to
write. Some people get into the mindset that Western medicine is the
only way to address fertility when the statistics show that alternative
modalities often produce better results.
JW: Can
you talk about those statistics?
JS: There are
nine major studies that were overseen by more than 20 doctors) in which
mind-body work was used to promote fertility. The success rates ranged
from 42 percent to 65 percent. If you compare that to the success rate
of Western medical procedures, a single intra-uterine insemination
procedure, which costs about the same as a 10 week mind-body program,
produces a success rate of 2
percent to 8 percent. An in-vitro procedure, which costs between $15,000
and $25,000, produces a 28 percent success
rate for young women and less than a 10 percent success rate for
women over 40.
It is important to note that the IVF success rates
I use are from the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention, which
tracks all IVF procedures performed every year within the U.S. These
numbers are based on live births for women not using donor eggs. Numbers
from some clinics can sometimes be misleading. Some clinics count any
pregnancy, rather than a live birth, as a successful outcome. Other
clinics strongly encourage women to use donor eggs because that
dramatically increases the success rate.
JW:
Although you are not an acupuncturist, you often refer to terms and
conditions related to acupuncture. How does that factor into your work?
JS: I believe that healing of the future will
combine modalities that connect the physical and the mental/emotional
realms. When I work with hypnotherapy clients experiencing physical
disharmonies, I teach them how to do mind-body healing meditations. The
visualization work is partly based on Eastern medicine diagnosis (which
is provided to me by the client's acupuncturist). Since Eastern medicine
focuses on the roots or source of an imbalance, I incorporate that
information. Naturally, this work also involves processing the emotional
issues that may be at the root of the physical condition.
One of
the reasons I feel I have been so successful in my work is because I do
my work in conjunction with Eastern medicine practitioners. I am
fortunate to have a network of gifted acupuncturists in my area, and we
often combine hypnosis and acupuncture. I believe that the combination
of the two is more powerful than either modality would be on its own.
JW: What have you learned about fertility through
your years of clinical work?
JS: Stress
reduction is probably the most important part of creating conception.
Not only can stress create conditions such as hormone imbalances, but
the hypothalamus gland (essentially the body's control center for
reproductive activity) is highly susceptible to stress. A common
stress-induced pattern with infertility is a situation where the
adrenals produce cortisol, the stress hormone that puts the body in
fight-or-flight response. The blood goes to our extremities so we can
defend ourselves. This takes the blood and energy away from the uterus
and the reproductive system which need that energy and blood flow to
function properly. People think of stress simply in terms of the
day-to-day stuff, but our old unprocessed issues are the main
contributors of stress. So, the way to reduce stress is to process the
emotional issues that are creating blocks to fertility.
JW:
Can you share with us what a typical hypnosis session would entail?
JS: The goal of hypnosis is to access the
subconscious mind. All of our issues, whether it be anxieties, fears,
behavioral patterns, beliefs, memories, experiences, feelings or
emotions, are all rooted in the subconscious mind. To make changes in
our lives, we have to address the subconscious material. Just talking
about things on a conscious level will not uncover or process the
incredibly powerful subconscious programming.
The hypnotist uses
what is called an induction to move a client into a state where
subconscious information is easy to access. The process can vary from
session to session, but the hypnotist will try to help the client find
the source or root of an issue. When the origin is uncovered, then that
source material can be processed or healed and replaced by a more
positive belief system.